{"id":68,"date":"2006-11-16T17:43:21","date_gmt":"2006-11-17T00:43:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sesame.browdy.net\/?p=68"},"modified":"2006-11-16T17:54:57","modified_gmt":"2006-11-17T00:54:57","slug":"sesame-the-negotiator","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/?p=68","title":{"rendered":"Sesame, the negotiator?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I had a prenatal massage this afternoon, and towards the middle of my treatment, the therapist commented about the baby, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153She\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s going to be mommy\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s little girl for sure.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d I immediately wondered whether she was basing this on some sort of scientific evidence (she had, after all, just asked if the baby\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s head tended to rest on my left side; maybe it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s been proven that babies who have a preference for the left have a preference for their mothers &#8211; ?) but then figured she just made that comment to be nice. It certainly made me think, though. Would Sesame be \u00e2\u20ac\u0153mommy\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s little girl?\u00e2\u20ac\u009d Would she show a preference for\u00c2\u00a0me or for Q? And would her personality be more like Q\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s or mine?<\/p>\n<p>I had similar thoughts last night, at the movies. Q played the pregnancy card to get us better seats at a sneak-preview (\u00e2\u20ac\u0153Look, she\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s 9 months pregnant \u00e2\u20ac\u201c it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s not good for her to stand in line\u00e2\u20ac\u009d), and I was marveling at the way he worked the security guy &#8211; who ultimately let us jump in at the middle of the line. (Thanks to him, we got great seats.) Not to mention the way he bargained over a major trade with someone in our Fantasy Football league as we stood in line. I couldn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t help but wonder if Sesame someday, too, will be a wheeler-and-dealer \u00e2\u20ac\u201c a talker who can negotiate with anyone and get herself out of almost anything. Or maybe she\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ll be more like me: someone who tends to follow the rules and not ruffle others\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 feathers. (What can I say? It\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s the Midwesterner in me.) I guess time will tell\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6<\/p>\n<p>On a non-baby note, I did some shopping downtown after my massage. Although I was on a holiday-gift hunt, I wound up getting only stuff for me \u00e2\u20ac\u201c including a pair of comfy brown sneakers and a cute make-up bag. It\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s an awful time for me to buy clothes for myself, but I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m already looking forward to a nice, post-baby shopping spree. I need to catch up with Sesame, whose wardrobe is already spilling from the drawers!<\/p>\n<p>-M<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I had a prenatal massage this afternoon, and towards the middle of my treatment, the therapist commented about the baby, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153She\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s going to be mommy\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s little girl for sure.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d I immediately wondered whether she was basing this on some sort of scientific evidence (she had, after all, just asked if the baby\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s head tended to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-68","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-prearrival"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/68","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=68"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/68\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=68"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=68"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=68"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}