{"id":1756,"date":"2008-07-23T07:00:12","date_gmt":"2008-07-23T14:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/?p=1756"},"modified":"2008-07-23T08:04:32","modified_gmt":"2008-07-23T15:04:32","slug":"20-month-update","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/?p=1756","title":{"rendered":"20-month update"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A friend recently told me that the 18-22 month stage was her favorite part (so far) of her children&#8217;s lives. I can see what she&#8217;s talking about, as Zoe is a blast to be around these days!<\/p>\n<p>Zoe is as active as ever &#8211; always running around the house (often making me chase her when it&#8217;s time to eat or get dressed), and climbing and bouncing around. She still loves to dance and sing, and these days it&#8217;s common for us to wake up to her crib-rendition of the ABCs. She has a mischievous side and, like other kids her age, she definitely knows when she&#8217;s doing something she shouldn&#8217;t be doing. (She usually gives us a little look before running away and laughing.) <\/p>\n<p>She talks a lot, and her vocabulary continues to grow. The word she says most often (after Mommy and Daddy) is probably &#8220;please,&#8221; which she uses for pretty much everything. (We taught her to say that instead of saying &#8220;mine&#8221; or grunting, and it has worked well so far.) Most of the words she uses are pronounced correctly, with a few (cute) exceptions: the aforementioned please is &#8220;pleesh,&#8221; butterfly is &#8220;fwutterfly,&#8221; fish is &#8220;sishie,&#8221; yellow is &#8220;yew-woah&#8221; and elbow is &#8220;elboo.&#8221; She has also a few special names for objects: a blanket is &#8220;night-night,&#8221; and, rather strangely, a shoe sounds sort of like &#8220;frees.&#8221; (For the longest time we couldn&#8217;t figure out what she meant when she said this.) She has also started using multiple-word phrases, such as &#8220;thank you, Daddy&#8221; and &#8220;here you go, Mommy.&#8221; And just a few days ago, when Zoe heard the garage door open, she looked up at me and said &#8220;Daddy home.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>One of our favorite (relatively) new words is &#8220;yeh.&#8221; For the past month or so, Zoe has been able to give us yes or no answers, which makes caring for her (usually) a lot easier. She has strong opinions on things, and her &#8220;yeh&#8221; helps determine what we&#8217;ll feed her, what books we&#8217;ll read to her, etc. Along the same lines, she doesn&#8217;t say &#8220;no&#8221; (something I complained about as recently as last month) nearly as much. <\/p>\n<p>In terms of milestones, Zoe recently identified herself for the first time. (During a round of &#8220;where&#8217;s Mommy?\/where&#8217;s Daddy?\/where&#8217;s Zoe?&#8221; she pointed to herself &#8211; and she now seems to understand that she is, indeed, Zoe.) And for several weeks now, she&#8217;s been able to identify (by pointing to) several dozen objects in books. Some are fairly common things that she&#8217;s recognized for awhile (e.g. baby, dog, shoes), but she has surprised us by being able to point out more unusual things (e.g. zebra, blueberry, pumpkin). I think things sink in faster with kids than we realize! <\/p>\n<p>Other fun stuff: When asked if it&#8217;s time for a diaper change, she&#8217;ll often get a diaper from her little bin, plunk herself down on the floor and look up with a proud smile. It&#8217;s clear she wants us to be impressed with her willingness to help. And, on a similar note, for days after our 600-day &#8220;photo shoot&#8221; with Lou Seal, she would grab Lou and lie on the floor every time we took out the camera. She obviously thought this was what we wanted her to do &#8211; which was quite cute! <\/p>\n<p>And speaking of cute, I&#8217;ve said here many times before that Zoe hasn&#8217;t always been the most affectionate girl. That seems to have changed lately, as she often comes up to me or Q with a hug and a kiss (and without even being asked). She&#8217;s especially fond of kissing &#8211; which she does by making &#8220;fishie&#8221; lips and then smacking her lips together afterwards. I&#8217;m not sure if this is just a phase &#8211; and she&#8217;ll eventually return to her old ways &#8211; but I&#8217;ll take what I can get!<\/p>\n<p>-M<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A friend recently told me that the 18-22 month stage was her favorite part (so far) of her children&#8217;s lives. I can see what she&#8217;s talking about, as Zoe is a blast to be around these days! 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