{"id":16921,"date":"2013-07-02T09:13:02","date_gmt":"2013-07-02T17:13:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/?p=16921"},"modified":"2013-07-19T10:45:40","modified_gmt":"2013-07-19T18:45:40","slug":"thoughts-from-a-busy-mom-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/?p=16921","title":{"rendered":"Thoughts from a (busy) mom"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been so busy filling the blog with pictures of our various activities that I haven&#8217;t given an update on just <em>life<\/em>. The truth is that, in the words of Ferris Bueller, life is moving pretty fast. It seems like just yesterday that the new school year began, and now we&#8217;ve moved on to other things: the start of camp (including a new one for Zoe), our house project, Avery&#8217;s recent\u00c2\u00a0birthday (still can&#8217;t believe she&#8217;s four) and several trips (starting next week, we&#8217;re taking three vacations in seven weeks).\u00c2\u00a0Despite the occasional stressors, life is <em>good<\/em> -\u00c2\u00a0it just seems to be moving in a flash.<\/p>\n<p>(Zoe even commented the other day, during a discussion on her being a first-grader now, that the school year had flown by. &#8220;I hate to tell you, Zoe, but time goes faster the older you get,&#8221; I told her. And I didn&#8217;t have a good answer to her follow-up of &#8220;why?&#8221;)<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve also been thinking lately, as I often do, about\u00c2\u00a0how different life is with slightly older children. With two increasingly independent girls (who have long slept through the night), I&#8217;m no longer <em>physically<\/em> exhausted. I&#8217;m also mostly free of the baby- and toddler-related worries; I no longer have to stress about leaving home with a million snacks and\u00c2\u00a0a change of clothes, or\u00c2\u00a0getting home from some activity by 1 or 2 for naptime each afternoon. (Amazingly, the girls lasted the entire day when we recently visited Great America.) But I feel way, way busier and <em>emotionally<\/em> exhausted than ever before: Long gone are the leisurely walks or mellow playdates with my little ones*; in their place is loud interactions with two spirited girls who often demand my full attention. And dealing with\u00c2\u00a0school paperwork, taking kids to\/from various\u00c2\u00a0locations,\u00c2\u00a0and managing\u00c2\u00a0the family schedule\u00c2\u00a0sometimes feels as if it could be a\u00c2\u00a0part-time job on its own!<\/p>\n<p>But as Ferris Bueller <em>also<\/em> said, &#8220;if you don&#8217;t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.&#8221; So I better start looking around&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>-M<\/p>\n<p><em>*I fully recognize, upon a second read of this,\u00c2\u00a0that I&#8217;m glamorizing life with a little one. It&#8217;s not like my days then were all peaceful and, as I put it, &#8220;leisurely&#8221; &#8211; and I&#8217;ve got my blog entries to prove it! But we tend to forget the hard times after they&#8217;ve passed, don&#8217;t we?<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been so busy filling the blog with pictures of our various activities that I haven&#8217;t given an update on just life. 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