{"id":12697,"date":"2012-05-30T14:02:03","date_gmt":"2012-05-30T22:02:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/?p=12697"},"modified":"2012-05-30T14:02:03","modified_gmt":"2012-05-30T22:02:03","slug":"some-thoughts-from-mom-7","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/?p=12697","title":{"rendered":"Some thoughts from mom"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A few random things that have been on my mind lately&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>-Having a two-year-old sometimes makes me feel like we&#8217;re living with a little dog.\u00c2\u00a0Many mornings over the last few months Avery\u00c2\u00a0has come in\u00c2\u00a0bed with us with a big smile and a lot of pouncing around &#8211; and when I&#8217;m exercising at home she often comes\u00c2\u00a0and jumps on top of me.\u00c2\u00a0The only difference between her and a puppy is there isn&#8217;t any licking or panting. Usually.<\/p>\n<p>-Why do kids talk so loud? I&#8217;ve noticed lately that Zoe has really upped the decibel level, and it&#8217;s especially noticable when we&#8217;re in the car and she&#8217;s trying to get our attention. During a particularly loud ride the other morning, I told Q that I heard the word &#8220;Daddy&#8221; one more time&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>-There is, truthfully, a fair amount to not <em><\/em>like about being a parent. But for me the worst thing, hands-down, is having to deal with dinner. It&#8217;s the end of the day, the kids are (often) cranky, the cook is (often) cranky and no one wants to eat the same thing. I&#8217;ve had serious fantasies lately of putting the girls on some sort of liquid diet, delivered via IV,\u00c2\u00a0and just being done with it. (Perhaps that&#8217;s why I make them so many smoothies.)<\/p>\n<p>-Zoe recently started taking showers on her own after swim class. While her growing independence makes me proud, and it&#8217;s nice to have her do something I once did, I started feeling restless while sitting and waiting for her one recent Sunday. When you&#8217;ve got two little kids, sitting idle isn&#8217;t really the norm &#8211; and being unneeded (even for just a\u00c2\u00a0few moments) felt somewhat foreign. I wound up arranging, and rearranging, her clothes.<\/p>\n<p>-A former colleague told me something I&#8217;ll never forget:\u00c2\u00a0You always think the\u00c2\u00a0current age\/stage of your child is the &#8220;best.&#8221; (I&#8217;m sure these feelings are by design &#8211; y&#8217;know, to ensure that parents don&#8217;t abandon their kids when the going gets tough and\/or their kids <a href=\"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/?p=12239\">lose their baby cuteness<\/a>.) Her comment has been right on for me these past 5+ years; right now, to me,\u00c2\u00a0there&#8217;s basically nothing better than the almost-three and five-and-a-half stages&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>-On a related note, I saw a woman strolling her newborn one morning on the way to school and it suddenly hit me that the sight of her didn&#8217;t make me feel sentimental or sad or envious: I felt perfectly\u00c2\u00a0content with where I was with my girls (who were\u00c2\u00a0happily munching\u00c2\u00a0bagels and giggling in the backseat), and\u00c2\u00a0with life. But then, later that day, Zoe started singing a song she had been learning for her &#8220;moving on&#8221; ceremony at school and I teared up, thinking about the end of the preschool era and how fast these past five years have gone&#8230; I suspect (know)\u00c2\u00a0those sentimental feelings will always stay with me.<\/p>\n<p>-M<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A few random things that have been on my mind lately&#8230; -Having a two-year-old sometimes makes me feel like we&#8217;re living with a little dog.\u00c2\u00a0Many mornings over the last few months Avery\u00c2\u00a0has come in\u00c2\u00a0bed with us with a big smile and a lot of pouncing around &#8211; and when I&#8217;m exercising at home she often [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[79],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12697","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-70-two-kids-may-12"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12697","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12697"}],"version-history":[{"count":18,"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12697\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12975,"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12697\/revisions\/12975"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12697"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12697"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12697"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}