{"id":10974,"date":"2011-12-19T10:00:14","date_gmt":"2011-12-19T18:00:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/?p=10974"},"modified":"2011-12-19T08:02:32","modified_gmt":"2011-12-19T16:02:32","slug":"2-5-year-update","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/?p=10974","title":{"rendered":"2.5-year update"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Two-and-a-half today, and time for another update. The biggest change since our last one: Avery&#8217;s a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/?p=9928\">preschooler<\/a> now! And while her first few days were a little <a href=\"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/?p=9947\">rocky<\/a>, she quickly <a href=\"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/?p=10255\">adapted<\/a>. These days, she\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s especially excited about school: She&#8217;s eager to go into the classroom to start her day in the morning (no long, drawn-out good-byes for her) and when I pick her up in the afternoon, she usually gives me long (though often not entirely decipherable) descriptions of what she did. She also enjoys a game in which she names off her teachers and classmates; she especially likes it when I throw in a random name and ask if she knows that person. (&#8220;No Penelope in my class!&#8221; she&#8217;ll say with a big laugh.)<\/p>\n<p>Another big development is her verbal skills. She talks more than ever before &#8211; and in longer, multi-word sentences (though her favorite phrase for the past few months has been the monosyllabic &#8220;Why?&#8221;). She talks and asks a lot about where people are (&#8220;Daddy at work?&#8221;) and what they&#8217;re doing (&#8220;Is Zoe awake?&#8221; &#8220;Mommy going to eat that?&#8221;) She also likes commenting on Zoe&#8217;s behavior: &#8220;Zoe not listening?&#8221; and &#8220;Zoe&#8217;s crying again,&#8221; for example. And she loves going around saying &#8220;Zoe&#8217;s five, I two&#8221; while holding up the appropriate fingers. She started saying &#8220;Love you, too!&#8221; in response to &#8220;I love you&#8221; a few months ago; because she knows how much I love it, the comment is usually accompanied by a tilt of the head and a fluttering of eyelashes, to maximize the cuteness. (She has definitely picked up on how proud we are of her newly honed communication skills; often after saying a new word or phrase she&#8217;ll flash us a proud, aren&#8217;t-I-cute smile.) <\/p>\n<p>And then there\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s her recent <a href=\"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/?p=10734\">shift in personality<\/a>: She\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s way less shy\/tentative around other people now. She&#8217;s friendlier to others at playdates, and she doesn&#8217;t do as much clinging to me and her dad in social situations. At Zoe&#8217;s recent birthday party, I watched in excitement\/awe as Avery looked around the room looking for Aunt Jenny, walked up to her and put up her hands to be held &#8211; and my mom practically melted a few weeks ago when Avery stepped out of our car, saw her across the parking lot and started running to her with a joyful &#8220;Grandma!&#8221; (I don&#8217;t think Avery would have done these things as recently as two or three months ago.)<\/p>\n<p>Avery loves playing &#8211; with her babies, with little figurines and animals (including a mini stuffed dog she recently named Holly), with various items in her kitchen &#8211; and she also loves doing whatever her sister is doing (like <a href=\"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/?p=10505\">putting on shows<\/a>). She is often singing &#8211; her favorites remain Happy Birthday; Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star; and the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/?p=11022\">Hamotzi<\/a> &#8211; and about a month ago she busted out a mash-up of Old MacDonald Had a Farm and Bingo. And as established here before, she&#8217;s a big fan of playing the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/?p=10290\">guitar<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Other fun\/funny stuff: She calls cakes and cupcakes &#8220;happy birthdays.&#8221; She still loves (and sleeps with) her two little babies, whom she calls Baby and Other Baby. She is a parrot \u00e2\u20ac\u201c in the past few weeks, especially, she has been repeating almost everything her sister says\/does. (For example, she has adopted Zoe&#8217;s love of playing school and pretending she&#8217;s the teacher: Just last week, Avery demanded that I sit down for a &#8220;meeting,&#8221; like at school, and proceeded to &#8220;read&#8221; to me like I was her student). If you call her something other than Avery, like &#8220;pumpkin,&#8221; she&#8217;ll usually say, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153No \u00e2\u20ac\u201c I Avery!\u00e2\u20ac\u009d She likes being silly &#8211; like pretending she is Zoe or Daddy or Mommy &#8211; and her newest thing is to put her hands together at the top of her hand (think the safety signal in football) and twirl around. It&#8217;s her dreidel dance. <\/p>\n<p>The not-so-fun stuff: Our <a href=\"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/?p=10574\">tough little cookie<\/a> can be defiant and tempermental, and she&#8217;ll occasionally throw objects in anger. (&#8220;Torry, torry,&#8221; she&#8217;ll say &#8211; her way of pronouncing sorry &#8211; as her dad or I carry her away to be disciplined.) If you do something she doesn&#8217;t like (such as tuck her hair behind her ears &#8211; a real pet peeve of hers), she&#8217;ll likely yell out, &#8220;No do that!&#8221; Within the last few weeks she started fibbing about her sister &#8211; saying Zoe hit her when she didn&#8217;t, for example. But hopefully that&#8217;s a short-lived phase.<\/p>\n<p>And some other random things\/milestones: She moved to a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/?p=10058\">toddler bed<\/a> in Sept., and I&#8217;m happy to report she hasn&#8217;t yet gotten out of her bed without being given permission. (And bedtime with her remains an <a href=\"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/?p=10976\" target=\"_blank\">easy thing<\/a>.) We started a bit of potty-training in the fall, and she&#8217;s well on her way at this point. And people say with increasing frequency that she looks like her sister did at this age &#8211; mostly, I think, because Avery&#8217;s hair is now full and curly. (Her <a href=\"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/?p=10762\">first hair-cut<\/a> was last month.)<\/p>\n<p>-M<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Two-and-a-half today, and time for another update. The biggest change since our last one: Avery&#8217;s a preschooler now! And while her first few days were a little rocky, she quickly adapted. These days, she\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s especially excited about school: She&#8217;s eager to go into the classroom to start her day in the morning (no long, drawn-out [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[74],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10974","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-65-two-kids-december-11"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10974","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10974"}],"version-history":[{"count":13,"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10974\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11190,"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10974\/revisions\/11190"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10974"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10974"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.zoe.browdy.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10974"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}